Practical Tools for Christian Families
Key Truth: Technology is a tool, not a substitute for teaching, trust, and accountability.
Layer 1 — Protect the Whole Home (Internet Filtering)
OpenDNS Family Shield (FREE)
Blocks adult websites on every device connected to your home Wi-Fi.
DNS Settings:
• 208.67.222.123
• 208.67.220.123
Benefits:
• Easy to set up
• No monthly cost
• Works on TVs, tablets, computers, and phones on Wi-Fi
Layer 2 — Device Protection
Recommended Apps:
• Net Nanny - https://www.netnanny.com
• Qustodio - https://www.qustodio.com
• Bark - https://www.bark.us
• Norton Family - https://us.norton.com/store
• Canopy - https://www.canopy.us
These can:
• Block explicit sites
• Monitor searches
• Set screen limits
• Alert parents
Layer 3 — Accountability
Technology alone is not enough.
Helpful practices:
• Devices used in common areas
• No overnight private internet use
• Spouses sharing passwords
• Accountability partners for teens & adults
Layer 4 — Build a Culture of Openness
• Talk early and often
• Teach God’s design for sexuality
• Emphasize grace & restoration, not shame
• Encourage confession without fear
Goal:
Not just “blocking sin” but training hearts and habits.
What You Need:
• Your Wi-Fi router login (usually printed on router)
Step 1 — Log Into Your Router
1. Open browser
2. Type one of these:
192.168.1.1
192.168.0.1
3. Enter username/password
Step 2 — Find DNS Settings
Look for:
• Internet Settings
• WAN
• DHCP
• DNS Server
Step 3 — Enter These Numbers
Primary DNS:
208.67.222.123
Secondary DNS:
208.67.220.123
Save and reboot router.
Step 4 — Test It
Try visiting a known adult site — it should be blocked.
Advanced (Optional)
Create a free OpenDNS Home account to:
• Customize categories
• View reports
• Block additional sites
Beginner (Least Technical) ***
• Turn on Apple Screen Time / Google Family Link
• Use OpenDNS Family Shield
• Keep devices in public areas
Cost: $0
Intermediate (Most Families)
• OpenDNS or Router Filtering
• Qustodio or Bark on phones
• Accountability partner or parent reports
Cost: ~$5–15/month
Advanced / Strong Protection
• Router filtering + OpenDNS
• Device filtering software
• Accountability monitoring
• Remove private browsing access
• Disable app store installs without approval
Cost: ~$15–30/month
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*** Notes:
Apple Screen Time & Content Restrictions (for iOS/Mac devices)
Built-in feature on iPhones, iPads, and Macs. Enable it in Settings >Screen Time to restrict adult
websites, limit app usage & set passcodes. It's straightforward with no extra cost.
Apple support guide: Search "Screen Time" in your device settings or visit support.apple.com
Microsoft Family Safety (for Windows & Xbox)
Free tool integrated into Windows accounts. Blocks adult content, sets time limits & monitors
activity. Easy to enable via family.microsoft.com
Great for households with multiple Microsoft devices
Google Family Link (for Android devices)
Free app from Google that lets parents set screen time limits, approve apps &
block inappropriate websites including porn via SafeSearch & content filters. Works across
phones, tablets & Chromebooks.
Download from Google Play Store & follow the setup wizard